August 02nd 2017 Week 31st Wednesday

Posted 2020-10-10 waitingdeng

Love means never having to say you are sorry.

爱就是永远不必说对不起。

If there is ture love, you will never do things that would irritate your lover.

If there is true love, you will always be understood easily by your lover.

Then you will have no chance to say you are sorry.

But how to build up a harmony relationship and maintain it as long as possible?

That is quite a big question, and there is no simple answer to it.

Several of my friends told me that I am with higer IQ but lower EQ, which made it hard to communicate effectively with me.

So, how to improve my EQ?

Go out and make friends with more poople?

That may be not feasible for me, because I always fear that I can‘t afford the cost of frequent leisure activities with friends.

Most of the poor, like me, always can‘t behave in a natural and generous way, and that in turn, give others a bad impression, make our friends gradually alienate us.

How about awarding me with some extra money and letting me get rid of such poor conditions?

 

Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.

不能铭记过去的人注定要重蹈覆辙。

From Geroge Santayana.

The past means experience, no matter it is sweet or bitter.

If it is sweet, that is to say, we have done the right things or we have maken the right choice, next time, when the same things happen to us, we may tackle with them easily and smoothly, and we may have more time to make our performance as perfect as possible.

If it is biiter, then it shows we have some wrongdoings or we have choosen the bad choice, next time when we encounter the same things, we may know how to do them right and how to avoid the pitfalls and avoid falling down at the same point.

It is not the worst to make faults or lose behind, it is the worst that one don‘t learn from his lessons and are not willing to catch up with other‘s pace even when he has been left behind.

I need to remember that, if I am to have decent life, I have to know who I am and what lies ahead of me.

Just run, run fast towards the finishline, even we may fall behind, we still can get a little closer towards it.