April 4 2017 Week 14 Tuesday

Posted 2020-09-22 waitingdeng

Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.

问题不是休止符，而是引向标。

It is ture during our explorations we often have to face problems, difficulities and dangers, sometimes even the most perilous ones and seemingly insurmountable.

If we give up, we may lose the opportunities to improve ourselves and overcome those things.

If we insist on trying, those things just can be seen as guidelines, they tell us some directions may be wrong, and some others may be workable.

Sometimes we have to find a balance between insistence and compromise, but most often we‘d better to hold on to the dreams, and get some hints about how to solve the problems through unsucessful trials.

 

It‘s not your circumstances that shape you, it‘s how you react to your circumstances.

塑造你的不是你所处的环境，而是你对周遭环境的反应。

I often feel I can‘t change the circumstances around me, I can‘t change my life towards a upward and positive trend, it seems all the things are working as obstacles on my way.

After experiencing a succession of failures and setbacks, I become extremely diffident, susceptive and gradually dare not challenge anything new.

Is it true that the circumstances result in all my failures in these years?

If it is, then just a little bit.

And the main reason may stem from myself, I didn‘t do enough, and I reacted in somewhat wrong ways to the circumstances.

I always want to be in the right circumstances, and in the right place.

I always wait for the right circumstances and the right place can magically change what‘s wrong in my life.

Maybe I forget if I can‘t change myself first and react in right ways, those things lead to the failures in life would be along with me forever.

So, dont‘ deem those failures as nemesis of the fate, they always can be attributable to ourselves, please react in the right and excessive way.